Does anyone have a normal named spelled differently?

in the baby name section people FLIP out if you suggest taking a name and spelling it out of normal. people actually say this will cause the child to hate you and cause so many problems in life. I agree that names play a big part of a person but seriously is spelling Ashley as Ashleigh going to stop you from getting a good job and leave you without friends? i doubt it! we are having a little girl and i really want to name her Alivea (olivia) and someone told me she would get no respect and people would judge my whole family for being illiterate. is it really that big of a deal?